No, no, don’t worry about it. You shouldn’t let yourself be so easily taken down. You were making great progress and you shouldn’t give that up yet. Listen, life throws you curve balls, your job is to either hit them hard the way they came from, dodge them and avoid the problem and if you get hit, know that time and help will eventually.
I see, those types of guys are out there and you have to be careful of them. It’s al right, you’ll be okay. Life sucks sometimes, but it’s worth continuing.
Remarrying does that effect. I know if Vivien left me when we were alive, I would never remarry. Probably be drunk all day.
You will find that guy, don’t worry about that. You have plenty of time. Sorry for sounding unmanly, but it’s true. There’s a person out there for everyone. It’s normal for you to be questioning your future and if you’ll find a guy that will really make you happy. My only advice for that matter is that the person will come to you. No need to fret.
That won’t make you a bad person, it’s great though that you have such a well shaped conscience. No, it’s okay that you question those things about them. It’s okay. I see, your mum rejects him and now you’re stuck in the middle of everything. hmm.
I see, well I think it’s time you sat down and really just…Just ask everything you ever wanted to ask. Don’t be afraid. You have the right to know. Get some answers and include your mother in the ordeal too. Don’t be shy. He seems to be not telling you everything.
I see, divorce on an early age could get harmful for a child. It could make them confused and often seek out the answer why they broke up.
That seem like a very misunderstood relationship. Both parties are not listening to each other when they need to be heard, not that I’m blaming you for the whole story. I understand. It’s hard summing up an entire relationship with someone. That sounds very manipulative on his part, did you ever ask him him if he was truly sick and ask to prove it? How did you feel when he first introduced himself to your life…and how’s your mom feeling about the entire situation.
Hello,Tegan! How are you?
I see, that’s quite sudden and reallysurprising. You sure as hell can talk to me, I’m here whenever you need me.
I understand. That is quite irresponsible. But what did he do exactly. Did he find someone else or just leave without a word? What’s he saying now? This is quite interesting…Let me know when you can.
That’s lovely to hear again from you, I’m glad you’re doing well. It’s fine, I didn’t take the message personally, you wanted to know and I may have been a tad crude.
Hmm. What do you mean by analysing exactly? Do you mean like examining their behaviours and moods without them really asking me to? If so, all the time. I get in trouble for it. They mistaken it for criticizing them when I don’t really mean to. I just noticed something I usually say things at the wrong moment at the wrong time and they get angry at me. I guess It’s something I have to work on.
Being a therapist is extremely rewarding…and also sometimes not. I’m not sure how to explain it. It’s hard not to develop a relationship with someone who is going through a tough period of their life and wanting help. You care for them eventually and you begin to feel pain for them when something horrible happens to them. There were many nights crying and drink at home for some cases. You wouldn’t believe the horrible things I”ve heard. Tate wasn’t the only extremely troubled person who could’ve been a danger to society.
But when things go right. Absolutely. You feel happy for them truly and a little satisfied with yourself that you helped. I would recommend people who are looking to be one with thick skin, and a strong sense of patience and understanding. This job isn’t for the weak. It gets tough.
Oh no. I didn’t mean that everyone should leave me alone. It was to tell everyone that messages won’t be answered as quick as some may like, but nevertheless will be answered and I will give the same amount of effort on answering them as well as I can. So please don’t feel that way. I would love to hear from you still.
I’m sorry, but I sometimes don’t have to time for it. I try to make as much time as I can but put it off other than answering questions. I do get busy, I apologize.
Note: I`m incredibly sorry for this being so late. I apologise for the wait.
Reality is boring. But it is what it is, regardless. I`m not sure what generally everyone thinks, it`s all very complicated and I do think that they are all consumed by their own problems and stresses and it does take over people easily.
I`m very sorry for upsetting you, I didn`t mean to make it sound like I was assuming things about you or mocking you in anyway.
